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Why do we feel jealous? Jealousy is often a complex, catch-all word that encompasses the emotions of fear, anxiety, disappointment, or anger. On this episode, Sara sits down with Emily, Dedeker, and Jase, the hosts of the Multiamory Podcast, to unpack the topic of jealousy. Read more…
Yoni massage, which has its origins in Tantra, has recently been getting a lot of attention in the sexual wellness space. What is the meaning of Yoni anyway? Read more…
Many of you are busy people with multiple responsibilities and who lead stressful lives. So how do you navigate a good work life, sex life balance? On this episode, Sara talks with Lisa Fei and Carmelia Ray about how to juggle a busy work life and maintain a fulfilling sex life. Read more…
On this bonus episode, I’m sharing an excerpt of a new podcast I’m enjoying and think you will, too. On Come As You Are, educator and bestselling author Dr. Emily Nagoski answers questions about sex with the latest science. Read more…
Curious about attending a sex party? Think about entering a party with a giant bed, and everyone’s exploring their kinks and fetishes. It’s a smorgasbord of pleasure… On this episode, Sara speaks with a sex-positive couple, James and Kat, who enjoy organizing sex parties. Read more…
Porn is commonly used to accompany masturbation. So how can you enjoy porn ethically, so there’s more of the pleasure and less of the guilt? On this episode, Sara chats with erotic filmmaker Paulita Pappel on what constitutes “ethical porn” and how to consume it in a healthy… Read more…
It’s been called the “Holy Grail” of the woman’s pleasure anatomy. But does the G-spot even exist? It's been a highly debated question. And one that Sara discusses with co-host Kat Leung and guest Vera Lui on this episode. Read more…
From antidepressants, to trying to conceive and having kids, Sara invites clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Kristin Zeising on this Sex FAQs episode to tackle the different real-life situations that could cause one’s libido to do a disappearing act. Read more…
Have you heard of the “male G-spot”? It’s another name for the prostate and it’s a major erogenous zone. But it’s an area that has been largely unexplored by most people. On this episode, Sara and Prescott Gaylord, an improv actor and intimacy co-ordinator, go on a journey to explore everything in prostate play. Read more…
How can you be more mindful with masturbation? Mindfulness has taken off as a wellness practice in recent years, yet most people don’t generally think of using it in the context of masturbation. Mindful masturbation is all about reconnecting with yourself and focusing on what makes you feel good. Read more…
What helps you build sexual confidence? Sex is a vulnerable act, and fear and self-doubt can often arise in situations where things don’t go according to our expectations. On this thoughtful FAQ episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After… Read more…
Is three always a crowd? Apparently not when it comes to group sex encounters - since studies say that having a threesome is one of the most popular sexual fantasies. On this episode, Sara and co-host Jannus sit down with model and sexy lifestyle events host Vonny Lang… Read more…
Curious to try an open relationship, but don’t know quite where or how to start? On this episode, Sara chats with relationship coach Valentina Tudose to answer your most common questions about open relationships. Read more…
How’s your penis doing today? Penises come in all shapes and sizes, and it can be tough to talk about them openly - especially if you’re anxious about it’s health or how it’s performing. Read more…
How does self-love help us have a better sex life? On this uplifting episode, Sara sits down with co-host Emily Tan and relationship coach Valentina Tudose to discuss the principles of self-love and how they apply to the bedroom. Read more…
How can we rekindle the sexual desire for a long-term partner? Or is desire always destined to fade? On this pre-Valentine’s Day episode, Sara chats with Dr. Kristin Zeising and co-host Mo from the Ho Ho Hong Kong podcast. Read more…
How are you incorporating erotic touch into your sex life? On this sensual episode, Sara chats with sex educator and founder of Confident Lovers, Christina Antonyan and co-host Kat Leung about the art of erotic touch. Read more…
Can sex toys be good for our sexual - and overall - health? Many of us regard sex toys as tools of pleasure, but this informative episode will help you to rethink the possibilities of sex toys, and how you’re using them. Read more…
How can you be more sexually assertive and dominant in the bedroom? Sara co-hosts this episode with kink coach Jannus, and we chat with guest Mistress Eva Oh, a professional dominatrix about her journey into BDSM. Read more…
Why is sex always so hot when you’re on holiday? On this hilarious episode, Sara chats with sex-positive friends Kat and Will, about some fun and exciting holiday sex encounters. Holiday sex brings out a sense of adventure in all of us. Read more…
How do you perceive sex work and sex workers? And why does the stigma around sex work exist? Sara and co-host Prescott interview Vanessa Ho of Project X, a non-profit group dedicated to advocating for sex workers’ rights in Singapore. Read more…
After a year of lockdowns, what’s being called the “summer of love” is upon us - wherein people are keen to release their pent-up sexual energy. So on this Sex FAQs episode, Sara chats with relationship coach, Valentina Tudose about all things casual…casual sex that is! Read more…
Want to know how to make sex last longer, and avoid finishing too soon? On this episode, Sara chats with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, who shares some great pointers on one of the most common penis challenges Read more…
Are you using your pelvic floor to experience better sex and orgasms? On this live episode, Sara is joined by Trista Chan, a Pelvic Health Physiotherapist from Joint Dynamics to discuss the link between the pelvic floor and the role it plays in our sex lives. Read more…
Why do we love having sexual fantasies, and what are their benefits? On this episode, Sara chats with guests Mo and Andy, who are stand-up comedians that host the local Ho Ho Hong Kong podcast so be prepared for some big laughs. Read more…
What does consent look like, and how do you make it sexy? In this episode, Sara invites sex-positive friends Jessica and Prescott Gaylord to talk about their personal experiences on consent. Read more…
Is long-distance a deal-breaker for your sex and love life, or can it actually make things hotter and better? In this episode, Sara chats with sex-positive friends Helen and James, who have both been in long-term long-distance relationships and are happy to share their experiences. Read more…
Sexual desire, or libidos, naturally ebb and flow. Sometimes over a course of a single day. So one of the most common challenges that couples face in relationships is a loss of desire or mismatched libidos. Often in these situations, sex begins to feel like a chore or a performance, which leads to further avoidance. Read more…
Dirty talk usually gets a bad rep. After all, sex isn’t dirty – so why should talking about it be? On this hilarious episode, Sara chats with her sex-positive friends Kat and James, who are never short on things to say, in the bedroom or otherwise. Read more…
How has the global pandemic affected your sex and love life? And how can you ‘corona-proof’ your relationship against the stress, uncertainty and conflict? A crisis like the one we find ourselves in accelerates the dynamics of any relationship. Read more…
What were you taught in sex-ed, and what do you wish you had learned? Often there’s a big difference between the two! Sara and guests Jules Hannaford, teacher and host of the Hong Kong Confidential podcast and comedian Elena Gabrielle of Story Party, talk about the sex education we received Read more…
Is your perception of BDSM and kink informed by the infamous Fifty Shades of Gray? Even though the Fifty Shades franchise does a lot to bring BDSM to the mainstream, it also get a lot of things wrong. Particularly one of BDSM’s key principles, negotiating consent. Read more…
Do people with disabilities have a right to be sexual? And what can they teach able-bodied people about intimacy and sexuality? On this episode, we talk to Carmen Yau, social worker and founder of erotica collection, “Sugar’s XXX Stories”. Read more…
How do we keep that initial passion for sex and intimacy alive for the long-haul? Highly sought after sexual/marital psychotherapist and founder of The Academy of Lasting Love, Nikki Green shares some illuminating lessons from over 20 years of experience. Read more…
Ever felt self-conscious about your body during sex? On this episode, Sara and co-host Kat follow Curvasian founder and body positive advocate Bertha Chan through her journey that led her to thrive as a plus-size woman in Asia. Read more…
We all love orgasms because they feel good, but are we actually using them to their full potential? Life and business coach Hani believes we can harness powerful orgasmic energy to create abundance and success in the rest of our lives. Read more…
How has technology changed the world of dating and finding love? Sara and co-host Prescott discuss the impact that online dating has had on our psyches, and whether we still believe in romance. Or if ghosting and dick pics have gotten in the way. Read more…
We all know that wellness is important, but how about sexual wellness? Sara and co-host Ben, talk to Billie Quinlan and Anna Hushlak, the creators of Ferly, an app that guides women through various areas of sexual wellness. Read more…
Jye and Sara are joined by Kat Leung, our live show panelist as we reflect on the highlights of the live show, as well as the entire Better in Bed season. We share more bedroom secrets to answer your burning questions. Read more…
What’s the secret to…having a threesome? Having anal sex pleasurably? Using a strap-on? Or keeping sex fresh in a long term relationship? Everything is on the table at our live podcast, which was recorded on International Women's Day. Read more…
Is porn harmful or beneficial? With 30 million people watching it every second and the average age of exposure being 11 years, porn in today's world has become a pervasive force we can't ignore. Read more…
On this episode, Sara and Jye explore another form of open relationship with married couple, Ben and Fern Bale, who open up about how swinging keeps their relationship fresh and exciting. Read more…
Why do we always want the things we can’t have? And want to do the things we shouldn’t do? Sara and Jye invite Jayde Lovell, the YouTube host of popular science show SciQ to shed some light from the fascinating world of neuroscience. Read more…
Fintech, edtech, healthtech…and now what is sextech? Sextech refers to any technology or tech-driven venture that enhances the human sexuality experience. Its the US$30 billion industry that you've never heard of... and no, its not just sex robots and VR porn. Read more…
How well acquainted are you with ... tops, bottoms, otters, wolves, bears, cubs or twinks? Sara and Jye take a lighthearted look at some of the most common terminology used in the gay world with their guest Tom Attenborough this episode. Read more...
Sara and Jye discuss the triumphs and travails of dating in today's world with comedienne Elena Gabrielle. We also talk about sex on the first date, "ghosting" and how online dating has changed the game. Read more...
Discover the unlikely origins and evolution of sex toys, as well as what benefits they can bring to your sex life. Read more...
Need yet another reason to hit the gym? Well, tune in and drop it like a squat! On this episode, fitpreneur Mack Pijewski joins Jye and Sara in the studio to deconstruct the link between sex and fitness. Read more…
What is female ejaculation, aka squirting? And why is it considered so hot yet so controversial? We dive headfirst into the mystery and fantasy surrounding squirting, as well as debate the science behind what female ejaculate consists of. Read more...
Discover why Hong Kong has so little sex, and the intriguing Cantonese vocabulary for genitals – birds, flutes, abalone anyone? Read more...
Find out why women are being shortchanged on sexual pleasure and what can be done to address this gap. (Hint: it's the clit!) Read more...
We talk about how tease is a playful form of seduction that can take many forms, from a lingering caress to cheeky banter. But overall, the true masters of tease are able to arouse and stimulate the body's biggest sex organ - the brain! Read more...
Open relationships may not be for everyone, but neither is monogamy. What types of open relationships exist? And is an open relationship right for you? Read more...
Want to get fluent in the language of cunnilingus? Tune in for the "innies" and "outies" of delivering the kind of oral pleasure that women want and love. Read more...
Guest, Zosha Piotrowski, shares her survival strategies and sexy date night inspiration to re-ignite the sexual spark after kids - behind very firmly locked doors! Read more...
Sara and Christina share their top tips for penis pleasure, tackle whether size really matters, and why a blowjob or a handjob really shouldn't be "a job". Read more...
We’re revving up our “O” engines by talking about masturbation and its benefits. From early masturbation memories and fantasies, to tips on getting started... Read more...
Sex educator and coach Sara Tang and co-host Jye Smith talk about how they learned about sex, awkward first time sexual experiences and why on earth they have decided to bring their boisterous audio baby into the world – the Better in Bed podcast. Read more...